Should christians use online dating
I remember cringing during Christian Mingle commercials, especially at their famous slogan, “Sometimes we wait for God to make the next move when God is saying, ‘it’s your time to act.” In my mind, it was simply “unbiblical” and unheard of for Christians to be hooking up on dating sites.
One day it dawned on me that my uncompromising opinions about Christian dating sites are a little ironic, considering that I’m a young adult who is a part of Gen Y and living in the age of technology.
If they take your fancy, you “swipe right.” If they also swipe right on your photo, then bingo – it’s a match and you can start messaging.
It was launched in 2012, and in 2016 had 9 million monthly users, going upwards.
It did initially have that reputation, but that stigma is reducing and the app has evolved to become much more of a general dating app, branching out and providing more services.
It is now more widely known and accepted as a dating service rather than a ‘hookup’ service.
The concept of “He who finds a wife” (Proverbs ) is strongly emphasized, and the idea of a woman being actively out and about searching for a husband is frowned upon.
But, in case you don’t quite understand how it works, here’s a little tutorial.Nowhere, however, does it say that God picked out a spunky brunette whom he's waiting to spring on you at the right moment. When it comes to God, I'm pretty careful about saying what he does or doesn't do.But I do know this—if you rely on this idea too much, your dating life will get really confusing.Would it have made their union any less valid or biblical?
A great argument in favor of Christians taking advantage of the perks that come with online dating was composed by Jenell Williams Paris of Christianity Today.“Should Christians use online dating services? Online dating doesn’t correct the well-documented imbalance of devout Christian women (abundant supply) to like-hearted men (a paucity), but it at least widens the net for Christians seeking partners,” Paris wrote. Their profile pictures are surprisingly provocative—low cut shirts, exposed shoulders, skin-tight pants, pouty lips.In 2013, many of us do our shopping, pay our bills, apply to jobs, and even earn degrees online. I found it odd that like a robot, I adopted these views without ever fully questioning them.